HerpDate
Safety Center
Tools and guidance so you can meet people with more confidence.
In the app
- Report profiles or messages from chat and match views.
- Block anyone at any time. They will stop seeing you in discovery and chat.
- You must be 18 or older to use HerpDate.
Meeting in person
- Meet in a public place for first dates.
- Tell a friend where you are going and when you expect to be back.
- Arrange your own transportation.
- Trust your instincts and leave if something feels off.
- Share a date plan with a friend from Share your date plan.
Notifications on a locked phone
On a locked phone, alerts use a neutral name. They never include health details, chat text, or the product name.
Messages
New match
You have a new match. Open the app to say hello.
Messages
New message
Someone sent you a message.
Messages
Someone liked you
Open the app to see more.
Messages
Account update
There is an update on your account.
Emergency and support resources
- US emergency: call 911
- National Domestic Violence Hotline: thehotline.org or 1-800-799-7233
- RAINN: rainn.org or 1-800-656-4673
Appeals
If your account was restricted and you believe that was a mistake, you can submit an appeal from the account screen or email trust@herpdate.com.